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Interested in a Christian perspective on this topic? See the bottom of this page

 

Important Notice: This presentation is  not intended for individuals who have experienced a serious offense, such as infidelity or domestic violence. These behaviors should be addressed with a couple therapist.

 
Strategies for Conflict Resolution

This module is designed for couples who want to learn how to resolve conflicts more effectively. This module will teach you to resolve conflicts in a calm and constructive way. Moreover, it will show you how to approach disagreements without disrespecting or devaluing your partner. 


To participate in this module complete the following activities:

1)    Read our blog on this topic at the link provided here: Click here

2)    Take a pre-test below on conflict resolution within your relationship and write down your scores.

3)    Watch the 5 minute video below on the LOVE strategy for conflict resolution  (together if possible)

4)    Download and complete the worksheet on Conflict Resolution in your relationship with your partner

5)    Once you have completed the previous activities, retake the self-test on conflict resolution, discuss what might improve your relationship with your partner, and compare your post-test results with the pre-test scores.


Step 2:  Take the pre-test.  Scroll down to take a self-test on conflict resolution in your relationship  (if you aren't working with a Hope consultant then type in "self directed" as the name of your consultant)

 

Step 3:  Watch this brief presentation.  This presentation can be watched separately or together to learn more about conflict resolution strategies.

Step 4:  Download the LOVE for Conflict Resolution worksheet and complete it together as a couple:

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Step 5:  After watching the presentation and completing the worksheet on conflict resolution, scroll down and take the short self-test again and see if you answers change.  (if you aren't working with a Hope consultant then type in "self directed" as the name of your consultant)

 

 
 

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                   CHRISTIAN INTEGRATION

Resolving conflicts in a respectful manner builds on Christian principles as well. As Christians, we are called to “be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to become angry” (James 1:19). This directly applies to conflict resolution within our relationships! Moreover, the Bible also states that we can experience anger, but it does not mean that we should allow this anger to disrespect or devalue our partner: “be angry, but do not sin”   (Eph 4:26). Finally, the Scripture also states that we are to address conflict in a timely manner: “do not let the sun go down on your anger” (Eph 4:26).

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