Many of us spend time thinking
of what ‘should be’. It is not uncommon to wish for something that does not
exist. We often spend a lot of time thinking of the ‘what ifs’ of our lives and
relationship. This can cause us to concentrate on the past and how we could
have changed it. Wishing things were different often consumes so much of our
time and energy that none is spent on changing the things we can.
Holding onto these things can
be detrimental to moving forward as a couple. There...
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